canyonwalker: The colosseum in Rome, Italy (italy)
Italy Travelog #5
Rome - Saturday, 24 May 2025, 9pm

After we checked into our hotel just after 3pm there was plenty of time left in the day. For us it had already been a long day. 4pm Saturday is 7am Saturday in San Francisco. With the time changes we'd basically been up for most of 24+ hours, with only a nap of 2 or 3 hours on the cramped airplane flight for sleep. But even a little sleep is better than none, and the summer-y daylight in Rome helped us wake back up this afternoon.

We made reservations for dinner with the help of the hotel concierge and then walked out to the nearby plaza for a bit of shopping, about half a mile away.

Wine is cheap in Italian markets! (May 2025)

A few things struck me about the convenience store in the plaza. One, it had fresh fruits and vegetables and meat and bread. ...Okay, it was more of a small grocery store than a convenience store, but for something the size of most US convenience stores it had more than just prepackaged crap, hotdog- and taquito rollers, and a beer cave. And two, while it didn't have a beer cave it had some surprisingly cheap wines. I could've bought a likely decent Italian table wine for the equivalent $2.35. Instead, though, I just bought a bottle of beer and some cookies for after dinner plus a can of soda for the next morning. It was definitely better to buy the soda for 0.95€ here than 8€ back at the Waldorf Astoria.

Speaking of the Waldorf, we went back with our bags of shopping before dinner. It would've been nice to combine the trips into a single outing, but restaurants around here don't even open for dinner until 7:30! We did our shopping at 6, and the little plaza certain wasn't interesting enough to hang out in for 90 minutes. I mean, we did look around since we had time. It's the kind of place you're done with in 5 minutes.

So, we chilled back at the hotel for an hour then walked back out, straight through the plaza again, to the restaurant the concierge had recommended, Da Luciano.

What sold Hawk on Da Luciano was— aside from the fact it was the first restaurant the concierge suggested that didn't involve the words "The menu is mostly fish" (since Hawk doesn't like fish)— was homemade pasta. Nonna makes all the pasta fresh in the morning. And to go with the pasta they have both fish and not-fish. 😅

Margherita pizza as an appetizer in Rome (May 2025)

The concierge also told us the white pizza on focaccia was a can't-miss. We didn't see a focaccia white pizza on the menu. ...Yes, I speak enough Italian— or at least enough pizza-Italian— to parse the words in Italian on the menu. So instead we took a flyer on a basic margherita pizza as an appetizer. OMG it was good! Hawk even liked it— and she hates most pizza.

The margherita pie was a good pick as an appetizer. It was light, sweet, and savory all at the same time. And the cracker thin crust— "It's on matzah!" Hawk quipped— was light and tasty. It left us plenty of room for our secondi.

Gnocchi in Rome - Hawk says it's the best she's ever had (May 2025)

Hawk ordered a plate of gnocchi. The potato pasta is her go-to pick in Italian cuisine. And hearing that it was homemade here was the key thing that go her excited to go. And Nonna's gnocchi did not disappoint. Hawk quickly pronounced it the best gnocchi she's ever had.

Veal saltimbocca in Rome (May 2025)

My secondi was veal saltimbocca. On the menu it's "Saltimbocca alla romana", but yeah, it's veal pounded thin and sauteed in a pan with ham (prosciutto) and a white wine based gravy. BTW, saltimbocca is a fun word. It means, literally, "jump into the mouth".

The saltimbocca was positively delicious. Yes, things were jumping in my mouth. 😂 I don't know if I can call it "the best I've ever tasted" like Hawk's gnocchi, though. I mean, I can, but that's a meaningless comparison as this is only the about the 3rd time ever that I've had saltimbocca as it's not common in US Italian restaurants... or the few times I've seen it on the menu it's been hideously expensive so I've tended to pick something else. This dish was I think 14€, so quite a bargain. And yes, of the 3 total meals of saltimbocca that I've had, this was at least tied for the best. 🤣

Now it's about 9pm and we're back at our hotel room. We're sitting on the balcony, having just enjoyed the sunset. I figure I'll go to bed by 10am as we'll have a busy day tomorrow touring in Rome.

canyonwalker: Planes, Trains, and Automobiles. Travel! (planes trains and automobiles)
Italy Travelog #1
SFO Airport - Friday, 23 May 2025, 12:15pm

We've started our trip to Italy. We're approximately 0.5% of the way there! Yup, we're waiting in the United Club Lounge at SFO. And we've got a while to wait. It's just past noon now, and our flight doesn't depart until almost 5pm.

Why come so early? Well, we thought the lounge would be a decent place to relax, with a bit of free food and space to get some work done without worrying about whether there'd be rush hour traffic later in the day. Well, we definitely solved for the "avoid rush hour traffic" part of the equation, but the lounge isn't exactly relaxing. It's overcrowded. Like, people are hovering for chairs like people hovering for parking spaces at Costco on Saturday afternoon. And the food? What little there is gets picked apart almost as soon as a new dish is brought out.

Maybe the crowd in the lounge is a lunch time thing, with people packing in here hoping to skip the outrageously priced slop served in the fancy-looking restaurants out in the terminal. ...Speaking of which, Hawk and I spent $60 for lunch on a shitty knockoff of Panda Express. I threw my plate out slightly more than half eaten.

Not a great start to this trip. We'll see if it improves soon.

canyonwalker: My old '98 M3 convertible (road trip!)
Sunday we made a day trip out to Zim Zim Falls. It's a fairly tall waterfalls in a fairly remote corner of the Bay Area. It's in Napa County, but not the part you think of when you hear "Napa Valley". There are no wineries, tasting rooms, or hot-spring lodges nearby. It 's out in the wilderness.

We rolled out of our garage just before 9:30am, having slept in a bit and then waited to see if we were up for a big day outdoors. It seemed like we were, so we filled water in our packs, stuffed changes of clothes in a sack, and set out for the day.

Getting to Zim Zim always feels like a bit of adventure in and of itself. The past few times I've thought of the road trip as having two parts, but this weekend I've realized it's really three.

Part One is zooming along interstate highways up to Cordelia, California. If you're not a local you might be wondering, "Where?" It's the small town on the edge of the Bay Area where I-680 ends at I-80— or where 680 begins as it forks off from 80, depending on your perspective. For us it's also a typical spot for an early lunch break on this trip. There's a Del Taco here, and eating at Del Taco is one of our guilty pleasures. We only get to do it on road trips, though. This one 73 miles away is practically the closest one to us!

Part Two of the trip is driving country roads up through Solano and Napa Counties. There are wineries back here, unlike what I said in the first paragraph, above. But the wineries are in the southern part of the leg of this trip, in the Suisun Valley geographical area.

Part Three of the drive starts as we turn off of Route 128 onto Berryessa Knoxville Road. In the past I've thought of this as an extension of part 2, but then each time I've gotten frustrated at how long it takes. Sunday I measured it. It's 24 miles. And the last several of those miles are slow— actually slower and slower each year— because the road is in increasingly poor shape as it climbs above Lake Berryessa. Notably the road involves 3 water crossings to get to the trailhead for Zim Zim.

Water crossing on Berryessa Knoxville Road (May 2025)

This weekend two were dry and the third had only an inch or so of water flowing across the road bed. But that wasn't the hard part of the drive. No, the part where I was thinking, This is probably the last year we drive here in our sports car convertible, was the crumbling road itself. The potholes are getting worse and worse.

Well, right around 12:30 we got to the trailhead. The drive had taken 3 hours, including our stop for brunch at Del Taco. Time to hike!

canyonwalker: My old '98 M3 convertible (road trip!)
Georgia Travelog #24
Atlanta - Saturday, 12 Apr 2025, 9pm

After a full day of hiking and road tripping today we still weren't done. We had another nearly 100 miles of driving to do. It was on to Atlanta! But first, dinner. At Golden Corral. 😂

Stopping at the Golden Corral in Cumming, GA neatly split the remaining trip in half. But why, other than geographic convenience, why would we eat at a Golden Corral, you might ask. Certainly there are other restaurants in Cumming, at least some of them better than a Golden Corral.

Golden Corral has become a guilty pleasure. We first reconnected with it when we were traveling in Alaska and decided— twice— it would be the best eats. And on a roadtrip through rural Virginia last September. Then we ate at the chain again, twice, on a trip to Las Vegas two months ago.

Yeah, the food's not going to win any awards... except maybe "Favorite Restaurant Among Americans 400+ Pounds and Families With 6 Or More Kids". 🤣 But since it's a big buffet restaurant there are pretty always some good choices on deck. And as a buffet restaurant it provides near instant gratification. Plus, I enjoyed a freshly grilled steak for dinner, so it was totally worth the price of admission.

On the whole the drive down through Atlanta didn't take as long as I initially expected. I'd estimated we'd get in close to 10pm with a stop for dinner. Instead we got to our room by 9. The difference was it took longer going north a few days ago. For one, we hit traffic in downtown Atlanta on Thursday afternoon. Two, it always feels like it takes longer when I'm going to something than returning.

Total driving for the day: 198 miles. Total driving in three days: 756 miles.

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
I mentioned recently that March 2025 has been a great month for over-achieving my New Year's resolution to try new restaurants in the area. Y'know, that New Year's resolution from... 2023. 🤣

About 10 days ago I was coming home from a client meeting in San Jose and was trying to figure out where to grab lunch. My Plan A had been to get lunch with the customer, or at least with my sales colleagues, but everyone else had places they wanted to get to quickly. And frankly I had to get back in reasonable time, too, as I had a string of afternoon meetings to join. I looked to see what restaurants were along my driving route. I was just about to settle for one of many familiar chain restaurants when I saw another option: a pizzeria that specialized in personal-sized pizzas. I love pizza— I mean, look, I have a tag for pizza, and my Apple News app offers me "Pizza" as a news topic— so I decided to give it a try.

Pizza California in San Jose (Mar 2024)

While "Pizza California" sounds like it's another chain restaurant— and the well-branded exterior kind of looks like a chain restaurant, too— it's not a chain. It's a one-off pizzeria that's apparently been in San Jose's Berryessa neighborhod for almost 30 years. While that's not exactly my home turf I'm surprised I hadn't heard of this joint before!

Pizza California is vaguely similar to those Chipotle-style pizza chains that have popped up everywhere in the past 10 years. Y'know, the ones where you specify your pizza one topping at a time while a worker assembles it behind a plexiglass divider. Pizza California is like that except you don't walk down the assembly line watching your burrito pizza get made. You order at the cash register, and someone in the kitchen, out of sight, makes the pizza. Oh, and they have beer. A lot of beer. It was lunchtime, though, so I stuck with a Coke Zero Half-Caf from their Coca-Cola Freestyle machine.

Pizza at Pizza California in San Jose (Mar 2024)

The pizza came out about 10 minutes later looking pretty darn good. I got a combo pizza, a set of about 5 common toppings—or, as New Yorkers would call it, a garbage pie. One thing about a garbcombo pie is that with all those toppings it can be challenging to balance the cooking. Pizza California baked it right. The cheese was properly melted and the toppings were just slight crisped but not charred.

Would I go back? Yes... but I'm not sure when. The pizza was great, and I love being able to get a quality, custom-made pizza in personal size. Plus the selection of a dozen or so beers on tap makes it interesting for an evening visit. But the location is at the edge of how far I'd drive for a casual meal by myself. I'd totally swing by for lunch again next time I visit the customer whose office is nearby. But go out here just for the pizza? Not very often.

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
I blogged a few days ago about my 2023 New Year's resolution to try new restaurants when I ate at two new restaurants in one day. They were even both Greek food. 😂🍢😋 But those aren't my only forays into eating at new* (or haven't-been-there-in-like-20-years) restaurants recently. This month already I've eaten at four new places. The other two are pizza and Peruvian.

The Peruvian was Inka's Restaurant in San Jose's West San Jose neighborhood. Housed in an unassuming strip mall location the restaurant doesn't look like much from the outside. Frankly it doesn't look like much from the inside, either. "Unassuming strip mall" is a motif that extends straight into the restaurant's decor with neutral green-gray colored walls, generic tables and chairs, and minimal thematic decoration. Mexican restaurants are always festooned with things like sombreros and murals on the walls. This place? Add a few Vietnamese ladies wearing masks and gloves and I could've believed I walked into a nail salon by mistake. 🤣

The saying "Looks can be deceiving" certainly applies at Inka's Restaurant. While nothing about the appearance of the place suggests anything more than a bland food in a weak facsimile of Peruvian culture, the meals sure seemed legit. Three of us ordered dishes that spanned a range on the menu. Hawk chose Lomo Saltado, a classic beef dish with beef, onion, and tomato stir fried together; our friend, Mike, chose a Peruvian style seafood paella; and I ordered Seco de Cordero, a lamb shank slow cooked in a stew with cilantro sauce. Everything was delicious.

Would I go back to Inka's? Yes... but also No. The food was great, and the prices, while not cheap, were totally reasonable for the quality and quantity. I'd totally go there again if I were in the neighborhood. But that's the thing.... We're rarely in that area. And going to West San Jose feels like a haul, even though it really isn't. This is where the restaurant's completely anonymous decor detracts from the experience. It just didn't feel special to go there to eat. It needs something like brightly colored murals on the walls to set the tone. Or ladies doing people's nails.

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
Wednesday this week was a busy day, work-wise. I was out and about on the Peninsula visiting a few customers. I met at one customer's offices just before 10am for a couple of meetings, took them out to lunch nearby, then drove up to Redwood City to meet another customer for a couple of meetings, then took them out to dinner. It turned out that both meals were at Greek restaurants!

Lunch in Santa Clara was at Opa!, a new-ish branch of a restaurant that's been around in Silicon Valley for a while. I don't remember if I've eaten at one of the their sister restaurants before. If I have, it's been years. Thus this counts for my Try New Restaurants New Year's resolution from 2023. 😂

Opa! feels like a high-concept chain restaurant. The decor is upscale and modern yet looks a bit too... pat... to be unique. It's not really a chain, though. There are only 3 of them. The menu is decently broad, spanning all the standards you'd expect to see at a mid-scale Greek restaurant, plus a few crossover dishes like the "Greek Philly Cheesesteak" that one of my colleagues ordered. It was huge, BTW, and he said it was great.

I ordered the Greek meatloaf, one of the house specialties. It was pretty good. I mean, how great can meatloaf be? It was moist, came covered— but not drenched— with a mild tomato sauce, and sat atop a serving of slightly too-creamy mashed potatoes and a few pieces of wilted spinach. The only reason I wouldn't order it again is because I'd like to try at least 3 or 4 other things on the menu before doubling back.

Also tasty looking was the grilled flank steak with feta cheese. That was my #2 choice, and one of my colleagues ordered it. He had no complaints about it, but my concern looking at his plate was that it was just a piece of meat with a small sprinkling of cheese. I guess if you're doing a carnivore diet that's perfect, but if you're looking for a square meal it's missing a few sides.

Speaking of sides, I also ordered a few appetizers to share. Saganaki was served alight, which thrilled all 5 of my colleagues, none of whom had ever seen it before. Opa! We also shared a plate of dolmas. They were disappointing. They were very fresh, but inside the freshly rolled grape leaves they were just rice.

Price-wise Opa! was on the spendy side of what Hawk and I usually do for meals out together. The tab for our group of six was about $240 all-in, so $40/head with tax and tip and non-alcoholic drinks. The qualify and presentation of the food seemed fair for the price, though, so I could see us going there together every once in a while.

Dinner in Palo Alto was at Evvia. Yes, it was Greek twice in one day. That happened because I picked the lunch spot while a colleague of mine picked dinner and apparently didn't notice the overlap. Or maybe he just really wanted Greek and was jealous because he couldn't attend lunch. 🤣

Evvia has been a well regarded restaurant in tony Palo Alto for a long time. I'm not a go-to-fancy-restaurants sort of person— except when the company's paying 🤣— so I'd never bothered to try it. But I was also curious to try it on OPM.

Evvia's dining room has a classy feel without being pretentious. We were seated outdoors on the covered patio where things felt a bit more casual. Heat lamps blazed away making it actually too hot despite cool evening air in the 50s.

The food at Evvia was all very good though not distinctive. Nothing made me say "Wow!" And the saganaki was not served alight. Disappointing. Maybe it's a fire code thing with the tented patio?

Surprisingly Evvia was not that spendy. I mean, it was more expensive than Opa!. And if you go deep in the extensive wine list you can add hundreds to your tab. But the braised lamb shank entrée I ordered was just $40. I didn't see the final bill (a sales VP paid) but I figure the average cost for a meal and shared appetizer and non-alcoholic drink would come to about $70pp all-in. Order heavy like the VP did, though, with lots of appetizers and two nice bottles of wine, and... well, I think the bill for 5 people topped a grand. 😳

I could see going back to Evvia with Hawk. It'd be in our splurge range though not a crazy splurge. As not-crazy-expensive as it is I wished I'd tried it on my own years ago.

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Enshittification is coming to fast food restaurants. The term coined to describe an unfortunate trend in online services and social media platforms certainly applies to other businesses as well. Anytime a business worsens its customer experience and also harms employee conditions or advertisers' value in pursuit of greater profits, it's enshittification.

I was reminded of the latest front in restaurant enshittification when I visited a local fast food restaurant yesterday. It had been closed for renovations for a few weeks. The way the windows were all papered over with only a vague "CLOSED" banner displayed, I was concerned it had gone out of business. But it reopened... and the only renovation I could spot, other than a fresh, more garish coat of paint on the outside, was the replacement of traditional cash registers with ordering kiosks.

Cashiers replaced with ordering kiosks at a fast food restaurant (Mar 2025)

In fact now there is no line to order from a human at this restaurant. But that didn't stop the majority of the customers from calling one of the employees over— the one whom I recognize from past visits as the primary cashier— to enter their orders because they couldn't figure out how to use the kiosks.

Replacing human cashiers with ordering kiosks is not new. I first saw it in a US fast food restaurant about 10 years ago. It's only in recent years, perhaps spurred on by pandemic-driven changes, that I've seen it become widespread. Yesterday's encounter was just the latest example... and the crummy experience I saw most customers— plus a few of the staff— having reminded me why it's enshittification.

I've been using self-serve kiosks in some places for a while now without much trouble. For example, I've accepted self-checkout at Safeway for years already. I can scan my groceries quickly there, and I like the fact that I can see the cost for each item appear clearly on the screen as I go. That's important because I'm a discount shopper, and Safeway has moved to a pricing model where regular prices are inflated and things are often only worth buying when they're on sale. Oh, but you have to be a member, enter your membership number, and have selected the digital coupon in the app before checkout to get the best price. So, in a sense what happened is that Safeway enshittified their pricing, and self-checkout helps mitigate the frustration with that. 😡

This restaurant's use of kiosks enshittifies the customer experience for many because the kiosks are just too hard to navigate. To order food you have to understand where what you want might appear in a hierarchical menu. At the top level there are too many choices: "Meals", "Chicken", "Burritos", "Specials", etc. What if you want a chicken burrito meal; which sub-menu is that in? What if you don't know what you want?  I was successful with my order because I did know exactly what I want. Though as I noted with a McDonald's ordering kiosk a few years ago, punching tons of on-screen prompts takes at least 5x as long as ordering from an even modestly trained human employee. And more than half of the customers around me yesterday gave up and demanded human help.

BTW, don't assume that customers who give up and demand human help equates to "Boomers can't handle technology". Yeah, the two Boomers in the restaurant refused to use the kiosks... loudly. 😅 But also refusing to use them were a variety of Gen X and Millennial aged adults. I think one issue might be that even though the kiosks can display options in both English and Spanish at this restaurant, many of the clientele are construction laborers (obvious because they drive up in work trucks and wear work clothes) who might be functionally illiterate. Asking adults to use computers is tough when they may have a 4th grade education or less.

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I found an interesting thing when I went to light a candle the other day. The box of matches I kept nearby had just run out, so I rummaged around other places in the house where we keep matches and found this:

I still have this matchbook from c. 1992! (Mar 2025)

What's so interesting about a matchbook with a restaurant's name on it? I mean, aside from the fact that restaurants basically don't "do" customized matchbooks anymore. It used to be a thing years ago, back when more people smoked. Back when smokers could smoke in virtually every restaurant, everywhere. Restaurants would hand smokers a matchbook with the restaurant's name on so they could light up at their tables, then remember the restaurant by taking the matchbook home, sort of like a calling card. A calling card that makes fire.

What's interesting to me about this particular matchbook is that I've probably had it in my possession, through multiple house moves across multiple states, since about 1992. I know that because the Greek House restaurant in Ithaca, NY was one of my regular haunts in 1992-1993 when I lived a few blocks away. Yes, these matches are from another century!

And why would I have old matches when I've never smoked? Ah, it's because in that century past the apartment I rented had a stove that needed to be lit with a match. That's right, a gas stove without an automatic striker or even a pilot light!

How old is that? Well, since you asked.... I estimate the house I lived in was built in the 1910s. That comes from style of foundation the house was built on and the foundations of other houses in the neighborhood. (Haha, you asked an engineer "How old is that?" and now you get an engineer answer. 😏)  Some houses had stone foundations/footings, others had concrete. Building standards changed from one to the other in the US after 1910. Thus I estimate the neighborhood was built around that time, with my house being slightly newer than some because it had a concrete footing.

Now, the stove might not have dated to the 1910s, but I figure it wasn't newer than the 1940s. Pilot lights become common in gas stoves in the 1940s. For example, my grandmother owned a stove manufactured in 1941, and it had a built-in pilot light.

So, since my flatmates and I needed matches to use our stove, and we were poor college students, we grabbed free matchbooks at restaurants when we dined out so we could eat hot food at home. It was lucky for us, I guess, that smoking was still common.

BTW, the Greek House closed in 2006.

BTW2, these 33 year old matches don't work well anymore. Unsurprising since they're cheap giveaways. Two fell apart as I tried striking them before the third lit.

canyonwalker: coronavirus (coronavirus)
Earlier this week I wrote Five Years of the Coronavirus Pandemic about what has and hasn't changed over the 5 years since Covid-19 was declared a global pandemic. I intended it to be a gentle reminiscing about how things have evolved. It turned, though, into a more strident criticism of the politically motivated denialism that reached fever pitch about the pandemic and then spread to other aspects of reality. So, how about those gentler musings? I'll cover there here in a part 2. Here are Five Things that have or haven't changed since the pandemic:

1. Remote Work. Working remotely was a reality for me for years before the pandemic. The crisis of the pandemic made it a reality for a lot more people. As business leaders praised how effective it was many of us thought it would become the new normal. Many leaders have subsequently yanked us back to the past with Return to Office (RTO) mandates. I've remarked before that there's absolutely value in teams being together in an office with low barriers to communication... but the reality of the business world independent of the pandemic is that companies have offshored or distributed so many jobs, especially in technology, that it makes only limited sense for people to sit in an office while still having to use phones, email, chat, and video to communicate with colleagues.

2. Prices. It didn't happen early in the pandemic, but at the impacts of supply chain disruptions, government stimulus, and changes in habits hit, inflation hit. Significant inflation hit. Monthly price changes came an annualized rates upwards of 10% at certain points. But while the overall full-year consumer price index never really rose about 5%, certain sectors saw way more inflation. For example, I've seen the prices of a wide variety of groceries increase by 50% - 100% over the past 5 years.

3. Eating at Home. Eating at home suddenly became a necessity when restaurants closed in March 2020. I'd made that shift a few days ahead of the shutdown. It was a big change for me as I was accustomed to eating nearly all lunches and dinners at restaurants. I made a knife edge transition from dining out 13 times a week to 0. As risks eased I added back dining out— or at least ordering take-out— at once a week, then twice, then more. I've gradually ramped up to dining out about 9 times a week now; but that's still down from 13 pre-pandemic.

4. Tipping is out of Control. Tipping standards increased during the pandemic. As people realized restaurants and take-out food were "essential infrastructure" even though food service workers are among the lowest paid people in our economy, people wanted a way to say, "Thank you for risking your life so I can buy this burrito." Tipping standards increased, and "Add a tip" interfaces appeared on payment kiosks where they hadn't been seen before. The sense of gratitude has lessened along with the risks of dying for a burrito, but the prompts on payment kiosks have not. In fact, kiosks prompting for tips have only continued to spread— including in silly places like self-service checkouts at grocery stores. There's now a widening backlash against expectations of tipping getting out of control.

5. Less Socializing. One of the most enduring social changes from the pandemic is that we all socialize less. Safety closures not only got us out of the habit of "third spaces"— places like coffee shops and bars where we can casually see & be seen outside of work/school and home— but also greatly reduced the second space, too, as work/school became remote much of the time. People got accustomed to living most of their lives from their bedrooms and sofas. Having gotten out of the habit of meeting people face to face— including spending the time and effort of going out to meet people face to face— it's hard to get back into it. And it's to our detriment as we humans are fundamentally social creatures. Depression is up, satisfaction with life is down, and record numbers of people report feeling isolated.

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Pasadena Trade Show Travelog #6
At the hotel - Sat, 8 Mar 2025, 6am

Yesterday was a long day kicking off the trade show in Pasadena. It wasn't that I stayed out late carousing; I was actually in bed, lights out, by 9:30. It wasn't even that the show itself was long. The afternoon vendor session was 4 hours, though I did spend 3 hours on setup ahead of that. And I had 3.5 hours of "regular" work with several meetings from my hotel room desk before even that. But what really made it an long day— annoyingly so— was that I woke up at 4am for no good reason. And today it's happening again.

No, I didn't wake up at 4am again. Thankfully. I managed to sleep in 'til 5:30 today. Woohoo? Yay I got 8 hours? I was hoping for more after a marathon day yesterday.

Today's schedule is more straightforward than yesterday's. There's no "cram in as much of a regular Friday of work as possible then go start this show at lunchtime". The show hours are 10-6, and that's all I intend to do work-wise today. It's a Saturday. But, dangit, I really wanted to sleep in 'til... oh, I dunno... the leisurely hour of 7am today?

As to what happened last night with that will-we-or-won't-we get dinner together cliffhanger I left off with.... Shawn and I met for dinner. We went to the Yard House a few blocks away. Well, it was a few blocks away for me and 1/2 block for him. We're at different hotels. At first I grumbled internally that's too faaaar as I was already beat and my feet were aching. But the brief walk was refreshing.

Dinner was exactly what I was hoping for: 1:1 with a new colleague, just shooting the shit about mostly not-work stuff, while downing a few pints of beer with some pub grub. We both were interested in calling it an early evening, so 3 rounds of drinks were plenty. Neither of us wanted to stay out late. (I have some colleagues who consider it a failing if they don't stay out 'til last call.) I was back at my room at 9pm, and lights-out in bed by 9:30.

Now today's another day. I'll see if two days of waking up stupid early has me running out of steam by the time the show day ends at 6pm.

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
Recently I tried a "new" restaurant, P.F. Chang's. I quote new because the restaurant itself is hardly new. It's a chain that's been around for 30 years and has 300 stores worldwide. Likely there's one near you. And the one near me isn't exactly new to the neighborhood; it's been there for 24 years. Plus, I've been there before. Though my last visit, to it or any of its 299 sister stores, was about 23 years ago. Returning to try it out again fits my sort-of New Year's resolution a few years ago to try new restaurants— where "new" specifically includes places I haven't been to in a long time.

Why have I not been to P.F. Chang's in 23 years? It's not because I hated the food. I mean, I did dismiss it as overly Americanized, yuppie-fied Chinese fare. I live in an area where there is so much more authentic Chinese food available that going to a "Chinese" restaurant that's the same in Wichita, Kansas as Silicon Valley, California was laughable. It's the same reason as why sit-down chain restaurants are sparse in Silicon Valley and up the peninsula to San Francisco. See also, Try finding an Olive Garden here. But keeping in mind, "I'm not eating Chinese food so much as Chinese-ish food that's yuppie-safe and is the same in Wichita," I decided the local P.F. Chang's was worth another try.

So, how was it? In a word, Chinese-ish. 😂 I went with my spouse and two mutual friends. We ordered a variety of appetizers, sides, and mains to share. Everything was well prepared and attractive looking as it landed on the table. The flavors were a little bland, made suitable for Middle American palates, if a bit too salty (also suitable for Middle America). Basically it was exactly what I expected it would be: an Americanized facsimile of Chinese food, served in upscale fashion and with upscale prices. And I figure that's exactly why/how the chain succeeds. It gives people a safe, not too foreign, and slightly upscale experience with ethnic food. Plus, it's a date-night or nice-dinner-with-friends spot that's two steps classier than Chili's.

Would I eat there again? Sure. Not next week... but probably sooner than in another 23 years.


Edited to add: Funny story about how authentic— or not— P.F. Chang's is. When I was traveling to China frequently for my job in the late 00s/early 10s I showed my Chinese national counterparts online pictures and menus of some of the Chinese restaurants near me. It was a revelation to them as schools in China taught that nobody in the US speaks a Chinese language or knows anything about Chinese culture. I was curious for their opinion as they looked at menus and pictures from the restaurants, which looked the most Chinese to them? They all picked P.F. Chang's. Why? I asked. It turns out it's because the restaurant's website prominently displayed the words "Chinese Food", in Chinese, written traditionally in vertical orientation. Native Chinese thought that made it the most authentic. 😂

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
Non-Vegas Vegas Weekend Travelog #12
Back at the hotel - Sun, 16 Feb 2025, 8pm

Tonight is a lot like last night. We finished up fantastic hiking by 4pm, went for an early dinner at a Golden Corral buffet restaurant, and retired early to our room in a low-rise hotel very far off the Strip. Yes, today we ate at Golden Corral again. But it was a different Golden Corral restaurant. 😂 Hawk didn't like the one last night because they didn't have her favorite dinner dish— or her favorite dessert. The one we visited tonight had both. It also had more of a carnival atmosphere inside. (That's a bad thing, BTW. But we mostly ignored it.)

Also like last night I'm pushing this blog forward while letting several journals full of photos and videos from the hike(s) that need processing wait. At this point one— one— from yesterday is ready to publish. Another 5 are in the backlog behind this one. I'll work the backlog after we get back from our trip Monday night.

The one thing not like yesterday is where we went. I already posted in this morning's blog that we went to Valley of Fire State Park. There we hiked to the Fire Wave, probably the most famous spot in the park; continued the trail around in a loop through the Seven Wonders trail; and then hiked the White Domes loop.

We were spent after that and also red-rocked out. We skipped even drive-to spots elsewhere in the park, instead opting for a scenic drive home through the Lake Mead National Recreation Area. It was over an hour of easy, country-highway type driving, through a combination of wide-open Mojave Desert vistas (basin-and-range geography, not flat desert) and occasional canyons and red rocks outcroppings.

Now we're back at the hotel, resting and unwinding from a busy day. And we've still got tomorrow's activities to plan. Our flight home isn't until 7:30pm, so we can plan a full day!

canyonwalker: My other car is a pair of hiking boots (in beauty I walk)
Non-Vegas Vegas Weekend Travelog #8
Henderson NV - Sat, 15 Feb 2025, 6pm

We're back from hiking Owl Canyon today.

"Wait, what?" you might be wondering. "What happened to all the pictures and video you always post from hiking trips?"

Those pictures and video are in the backlog. And to prevent this whole trip series from getting backlogged too badly I'm leaving them there for now and jumping ahead to this entry. I've skipped three blogs ahead! But to give you a taste I have prepared this one photo from the backlog:

Oh, I'm so scared! Owl Canyon Trail, Lake Mead National Recreation Area (Feb 2025)

Yup, the trail was rough in places. No, it wasn't that bad. Yes, we've seen worse. Far worse. I mean, we didn't suffer a slip or scrape on this trail. And I didn't even drop my camera off a cliff or in a swamp!

One thing the hike did do was tire us out. It also built our appetites. On the way back to the hotel we stopped for early dinner at Golden Corral. Yes, Golden Corral the buffet restaurant that's a favorite of the "Americans 350+ lbs. in motorized wheelchairs" demographic. I mean, the restaurant even has a motorized wheelchair parking area— you could say, corral— with a power strip for recharging... indoors by the restrooms. 🤣

Now we're back at the hotel and staying in for the night. We'll rest up, and I'll probably go to bed early again tonight. Tomorrow I want to get up early to head out to Valley of Fire State Park for a full day of hiking!

canyonwalker: Walking through the desert together (2010) (through the desert)
Non-Vegas Vegas Weekend Travelog #2
Lake Mead, NV - Sat, 15 Feb 2025, 11:45am

We got off to a slow start this morning. It wasn't from sleeping in late, though. I wouldn't have minded sleeping in late. It would've been my first time in about 6 days. No, my body decided 5:45am was waking up time. Then there were a series of things I needed/wanted to do that resulted in us not getting out for over 5 hours. 😒

Where are we going out to?

View across the Las Vegas Wash in Lake Mead National Recreation Area (Feb 2025)

It's the Lake Mead National Recreation Area. We're out here for a day of hiking. The photo above is a view from the trailhead. But unfortunately it's already 11:45. The day's, like, half over. What took so long?

Beginning in Henderson, which is just southeast of Las Vegas, my first task was to get a ride back to Las Vegas Airport to rent a car. Why not do it last night when Hawk and I were literally at the airport together? Well, when we booked this trip initially there were different timings, and it made sense to get the car in the morning rather than the night before. By the time my company forced a change of plans on me, the price of the rental car had gone up over $100 for our 3-day weekend. For that kind of money Hawk and I decided we could Lyft/Uber around a few times. And walking to dinner from the hotel last night wasn't bad.

I checked the hotel's breakfast offering on the way out. Ugh, runny scrambled eggs and a room full of boisterous children. It looks like there's a U8 team staying here for a tournament. I skipped the breakfast buffet and ate a protein bar with half a bottle of Coke Zero.

Once back at the airport— actually, the rental car center, which is 2-3 miles from the terminal— I went through the hoops of picking up my car. "I"ve upgraded your car," the rental agent said cheerfully. Hooray, the benefits of elite status! "It's a Toyota Corolla!" she continued. ...Wait, what? Nobody in the history of the world has ever thought, "Oh, my, a Corolla, what an upgrade!"

Well, good news/bad news. My assigned car— my upgrade Corolla— had a cracked windshield and a busted windshield wiper hanging loose. I trudged back to the rental office— yes, it was a trudge, as they gave me what seemed like the farthest away car in the lot— and got a new assignment. This one actually was a slight upgrade. Well, an upgrade from a Corolla anyway. 😂

Hyundai Elantra rental car. It's nearly new! (Feb 2025)

It's a Hyundai Elantra, and it's almost new— just 1,005 miles on the odometer. And it's not really much of an upgrade from a Corolla, though it does look sharper. And it has heated seats— which are a huge bonus for Hawk, whose back problems are flaring.

Back at the hotel we gathered our hiking gear for the day. Hawk had already packed most of mine while I was out, which was helpful. But we still needed to finalize where to go. We'd meant to do that last night, but both of us tired out quickly and went to bed early. And it took me a while this morning as I was still unpacking— mentally unpacking— from a busy week of training at work.

As we got ready to actually leave I realized I'd forgotten to pack my hiking gloves. I use them to protect my hands while boulder scrambling. And our chosen hike, Owl Canyon, would definitely have boulder-scrambling in slot canyons! Well, good news/bad news. I could buy a pair of gloves easily at a sporting goods store like Big 5, which there's one of half a mile from the hotel. But it wouldn't open for another 30 minutes.

"No problem," we figured. "We'll go out for a quick brunch first." Except the place we picked was closed. Permanently. Oops. With the drive time there and back the Big 5 was already open, so I just did my shopping. They had hiking socks on sale, so at least I made my shopping a two-fer. And they had the exact type of gloves I wanted.

We still needed brunch. We quickly agreed on another restaurant kind of on the way out of town. Then, as we pulled into the parking space in front of the door, we noticed another restaurant across the street: Del Taco! Yes, Del Taco, one of our guilty favorites. Well, not guilty, because we have no reason to feel guilty for it. We un-parked, drove across the street, and ate at Del Taco.

It was nearly 11am by the time we got rolling again, finally actually driving out to our hike for the day. We reached the trailhead for Owl Canyon at 11:30, laced up our boots, checked our packs, and got ready to hit the trail.

Whew, it's taken hours longer than it should have to get to this point, but now we're looking forward to a fun hike!

Update: Keep reading in Hiking the Owl Canyon Loop - Part 1

canyonwalker: Walking through the desert together (2010) (through the desert)
Non-Vegas Vegas Weekend Travelog #1
Henderson, NV - Fri, 14 Feb 2025, 9pm

After 4½ days of work meetings wrapped on Friday afternoon it was time to shift gears. I shifted from being in Las Vegas and ignoring all the glamor and gambling for work, to being in Las Vegas and ignoring all the glamor and gambling for leisure! Instead of me flying home Friday evening I had bought a ticket for Hawk to come out and join me. And it was even Valentine's Day.

"Wait," you might wonder, "Don't you mostly ignore Valentine's Day?"

Working on Valentine's Day (image from Readers Digest)

Yes, I do! The main thing I've done on Valentine's Day the past several years is go to work. And that's partly because my company nearly always schedules SKO on the week of Valentine's Day. I guess they get a cheaper rate or something as other companies are trying to give their employees a break by not scheduling mandatory offsites that week. Mine even ridicules Valentine's Day as fake holiday.

It's a good thing Hawk and I agree. 😂

But even so, just because I roll my eyes at Valentine's Day doesn't mean I want to stay at work on Valentine's Day. Especially on a Friday after a long week! I skipped out from a post-meeting round of drinks with my department head at 5:05pm and boarded a Lyft car to the airport.

At LAS I met Hawk in the baggage area. Her flight had landed 10 minutes earlier. We scooped up our large bag once it hit the conveyor belt, called another Lyft car, and rode to our hotel for the next 3 nights.

We're totally off-Strip for the weekend. We're out in Henderson, at a Marriott Residence Inn. The closest thing to gambling around here would be trying the runny scrambled eggs at the breakfast buffet in the morning. 🤣

For dinner this evening we walked to a Mexican restaurant a block or two away. The walk was actually more than we bargained for as the temperature was dropping and wind was gusting. Oh, and the sidewalks out here aren't meant actually to be used. But the food was good. We both enjoyed the dish of guacamole we split as an appetizer. It was as good as our best homemade. And when they brought more out with her taco she set the remainder of first dish aside to take back to the hotel. I had quesabirria which was way more filling than I expected, so I took some of that back, too, to save for breakfast tomorrow.

We're back at the hotel now, and I'm crashing hard. Even though it's only 9pm I'm not too surprised as it's been a hard week for me. I haven't gotten to bed before midnight or gotten more than 5½ hours of sleep a night the past several days. So, going to sleep at 9:30? I'm due.


canyonwalker: WTF? (wtf?)
I saw an interesting article in my newsfeed yesterday, "Gen Z Doesn't Know How to Act in Bars." I'm always curious to read the latest in how older generations are scorning the young. And this article was published by Vox, which has a strong reputation for insightful explanatory journalism. Perhaps this article would go beyond superficial scoffing, I thought, and show whether there's really a there there. Well, it did, and it didn't.

First, let me summarize the complaints, according to the article, about how Gen Z acts incorrectly in bars:

  • Gen Z closes out their bills each round, instead of leaving a tab open for the evening, making more work for the bartender. Yes, this really is the primary complaint; the article even states that explicitly. ...Which makes me wonder who wrote this, an overworked bartender?

  • In a group of Gen Zs, not everybody will order a drink. ...Again, what sources were used for writing this article?

  • Gen Z groups are more interested in socializing with the friends they came with than chatting up the bartender. ...Seriously?

  • Gen Z groups stay a long time without drinking the whole time. ...Are you sensing a pattern here?

The author shows a moment of self-awareness about the rubbish she's spreading. Before presenting the above complaints she writes:

"Obviously, it’s incredibly satisfying to point out how a person — or, even better, a whole group of people — does something wrong. It’s even more fulfilling to be able to signal a divide, a marker that, for objective scientific reasons, you could never be implicated in this type of chaotic discordance. Look at this worse person — who is nothing like me — move through the universe, incorrectly!"
You could plausibly argue that this foreward to the complaints— which, taken together, all sound like they come from impatient bartenders who wish customers would just pay and get out— invites us to scoff at them and dismiss them. Indeed, for some of us, like me, it does. I love her little passage about thinking ourselves better than others. But in a published work I believe you've got to evaluate the content by its mass. When an essay is 98% complaints and 2% one trenchant little paragraph about how, maybe, the complaints aren't valid, most people— maybe even, say, 98%— are going to take away the 98% as the message.

What's wrong with the complaints in the article, by the way? Here are Five Things. And remember, I'm two generations older than Gen Z.

1. Closing out the bill each round sounds like a store problem, not a customer problem. Seriously, easy and fast payment system exist. Stop being cheapskates and replace your early-2000s technology. Don't tell me you can't afford to upgrade when you sell $1.50 bottles of beer for $10+ each.

2. Yeah, not everybody orders a drink. Deal with it. It was like that 25-30 years ago when I was a regular bar patron, too.

3. Is it because your service sucks? One big reason not everybody among my friends 25-30 years ago ordered drinks was shit service. At a pub I met friends at every week, most stopped ordering food and drink because table service became so erratic. That was one particular establishment, but in general service levels are way weaker today than they were back in the late 1990s.

4. People order fewer drinks because they're expensive. Even as a Gen Xer I order way fewer drinks in bars and food-and-bar establishments now than in the past because they've just so darn expensive. At $10+ for a beer and $15+ for a cocktail I just can't enjoy them much anymore. Plus, if had the weaker finances of a 20-something I certainly wouldn't be downing a lot of $15+ mixed drinks!

5. People linger over drinks. That's how bars have always worked. The thing that's most ridiculous about this article is the bartenders' repeated preference that people just order drinks as long as they're there, then leave. And that's just so many kinds of wrong. To name just two: A, it was never like that. B, do you really expect people to buy a drink and leave— they could buy that $10 beer for $2 at the grocery store if that's all they wanted— or to get soused on multiple rounds of drinks if they stay for a few hours? These bartenders seem like the worst of the doesn't-know-how-to-socialize stereotype typically thrust on Gen Z.
canyonwalker: Mr. Moneybags enjoys his wealth (money)
Today, again, for the second time in umpteen visits, a local fast food restaurant gave me the senior discount on my order.

Lunch spot gave me the Senior Discount again... and you know what? I'm okay with it now. (Feb 2025)

In the past I've reacted, "WTF? How old do you think I am?" Now I'm like, whatever. You want to give me a discount I don't deserve, that's okay with me. I don't care if young'uns think I'm 15 years older than I am. I'm only as old as I feel. And a buck-fifty's a buck-fifty. 😅

For years I've been secretly jealous of senior discounts. As a teen struggling to afford things on my minimum wage salary I always frustrated by it. Why do seniors get a discount? I wondered. They've had way more years to get the money!

Well, now it's my turn. I mean, technically it's not my turn for another 10-12 years for 10% off at many restaurants, hotels, etc., but why not let grab those discounts as soon as I can from whippernappers who think that everyone over 40 is 65+. That's right, kids, I remember the 1980s! I changed TV channels with a knob on the TV set! I raised and lowered windows in my first car by turning a crank! Now give me that damn 10% off. 🤣


canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
Panama Travelog #34
Panama City, Panama - Sun, 29 Dec 2024. 10pm.

After a fizzle of a trip to Panama City's old town today we came back to the hotel in the drizzling rain and took it easy for the rest of the afternoon. At dinner time we debated where to eat. I fretted about so many things this trip going to shit, especially, most recently, getting rooked at a tourist trap lunch spot. I didn't want to spend a lot of money for dinner only to have food that's mediocre at best. Well, when you don't want to pay a lot for dinner there's always... fast food! But not the American chains like the Subway we tried— and enjoyed— last night. There was a local fast food chain we could see from the pool on the roof: El Tarasco.

Dinner at El Tarasco in Panama City (Dec 2024)

El Tarasco has a bit of an odd setup for a fast food restaurant. They serve alcholic drinks... but only a few frilly, frozen ones like the piña coladas we're enjoying in the photo above. There's no beer. We ordered drinks, an appetizer of guacamole, and a few tacos each.

I ordered the tacos al pastor shown in the first pic. Hawk got carna asada tacos "keto style".

Dinner at El Tarasco in Panama City (Dec 2024)

What's keto style? These tacos have beef and cheese fried on a griddle and then folded over on itself, kind of like enchiladas but without any tortilla. And the taste? A bit overcooked, actually. But, aside from that, tasty.

I mentioned soaking in the hot tub. It occurs to me I haven't shared any pics from or of the hotel this part of the trip. Partly that's because the weather's been shitting almost the whole time we're here, and "Ooh! I will take pictures of the rain and drear!" is not a thing I've ever said. But that said I did snap a few photos in the evening when it stopped raining.

View from pool deck on the roof of our hotel in Panama City (Dec 2024)

These are from the pool deck on the roof.

View from pool deck on the roof of our hotel in Panama City (Dec 2024)

We've spent a lot of time up here at the hot tub the past few days. It's vastly better than the dirty duck pond called a "pool" at our hotel in El Valle. I'm glad I made a side-trip the other day to buy a swim suit even with busted navigation since I forgot mine at home this trip.

canyonwalker: Cheers! (wine tasting)
Panama Travelog #32
Panama City, Panama - Sat, 28 Dec 2024. 8pm.

Last night we walked a bit around the neighborhood before settling on dinner at the front desk's recommendation, Costa Azul. Costa Azul was... thoroughly mediocre. That mediocrity left us curious about the fast food restaurants we'd seen a block away from our hotel. McDonald's, Wendy's, Subway, Carl's Jr. ... they all looked good. They all had classier items on their menus than are available in the US.

Today we were tired after our halfway transit of the Panama Canal. I was extra tired because I'd woken up a bit after 2am, unable to fall back asleep. I napped for a few hours when we got back to the hotel. After that I was still low on energy, and so was Hawk. We decided against going out for a fancy dinner. Something simple, inexpensive, and nearby would hit the mark for us. It was a perfect time to take a second look at those fast food franchises!

Subway in Panama sautes beef, onions, and peppers with a chimichurri sauce (Dec 2024)

We landed at the Subway. What intrigued us both was their chimichurri sub. Then they surprised us by combining the beef, onion, and peppers in sauté pans. They dabbed in chimichurri sauce at the end (the proper way to sauce stir-fried meats and vegetables) along with shredded mozzarella to melt it all together. Then they scooped it into freshly toasted rolls.

"This is like Subway 20 years ago," Hawk remarked. "None of their stuff tastes as good anymore."

"US Subway never had a hot sub this fresh," I countered gently. Or maybe I just said it in my internal monologue. My mouth was probably too full of delicious chimichurri steak sub to say things aloud.

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